Tales from a Mid-Lifer

Gratitude, happenings, observations … 

1. I marveled at the multitude of fireworks displays across the sky from our new hilltop view. I felt like a Manhattan executive I know who always has a front row seat to the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day parade from his perch high above. All the 4^th’s of lugging chairs, coolers, etc., with the kids – wish we had this when they were young!

2. I deleted the one and only social media I scrolled: Instagram. I miss it but I set a goal to stay off for the remainder of summer. 

3. Speaking of summer… Texas is perpetual summer. My A/C was on in February and is still rolling 24/7. I’ve been back in Texas a month and missing New York cool mornings and rain days. 

4. I can easily focus gratitude upon the ‘bigger’ life happenings. The larger moments are precious and most memorable, but no less important than the daily gifts. I am thankful for breath filling my chest, provision, health, love of God and family. Thank You, Jesus. 

5. A July intention was to read a chapter, poem, etc., each day. I was mostly successful with daily Bible reading and other works – I’ll share some quotes on Monday. One of my readings was studying Ecclesiastes in four different versions. Solomon’s words in this particular book have always felt very practical and relatable. A truly timeless perspective.

6. My 29-yr old daughter is leaving New York, taking a new role in coastal Florida. She’s reached a career level where movers pack her apartment as part of her generous relocation package, she’s asked if she wants airplane aisle or window seats, which hotels she prefers for travel, etc.. She did her part to earn the perks so young, but these are still God’s extra blessings. 

7. I honored the 10^th anniversary of my beloved friend’s passing. We were friends for two decades before she went to her forever home at 49. We shared the kids-growing-up years, had regular coffee dates and always enjoyed setting a proper table for each other. I still miss her. 

8. July highlight: hearing my grandson’s heartbeat in utero. 

9. It’s surreal typing the word “grandson”. I don’t feel like a grandparent but we will welcome our first in about two months. I’m praying over every detail and very excited.  

10. I finally made time to have over new neighbors for dinner. We enjoyed a fun evening and I’m thankful to have nice people nearby.   

May your August be filled with slow days, sweet moments and everything else you want it to be. Thank you for reading and have a wonderful weekend!