I’m Just Trying to Buy a Toilet Brush!

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One of the 100 things I needed when moving into a new home was a toilet brush. Cruising Amazon, mentally debating whether to purchase one for $7 or $27, I marveled (again) at the absurd number of selections of literally everything in modern times. 

I’ve snickered out loud when buying aspirin, noticing the exponential increase of pain reliever options – all targeting the same problem with identical ingredients, just slapped with a different label. 

The same holds true for thousands of other items, including a toilet brush.

According to ChatGPT, Amazon alone sells between 1000-3000 different toilet brushes. Actual differences? Not many. Color, size, weight, 2-packs or single packs… some are electric:

Source: Amazon

We encounter this for items like identical USB cables, made in the same factories but sold at Amazon with unique labels. Men’s dress shirts? Line them up side by side at Macy’s and see if you can decipher which white collar shirts were made in the same factory, yet packaged with different designer names.   

Why do we bother scrolling a basic item for hours, maybe days before purchasing? Whatever the reason for sifting through an array of interchangeable choices, there exists an illusion of variety, making us (consumers) indecisive, contemplating whether one option really is slightly β€œbetter” than another.

For most household items, it’s marketing vs. information. We’re not more informed after scrolling, but definitely attracted to the item with the catchier reel.

The latest marketing ploy in our shopping selections: β€œas seen on TikTok”, β€œTikTok best seller” or fast-reading, dumbed-down reads often labeled, β€œBookTok Books”.  

Bottom line: the most eye-catching marketing reel not only garners the most clicks but ultimately generates the greatest sales. Amazon operates similarly.

Amazon showed me the exact same toilet brush over and over and over as I scrolled tens of other options. Likely the seller paid for their brush reel to be on repeat.

Out of annoyance (and to show them who’s boss of her own purchases), I bought a more obscure brush absent the fancy videos popping up, nor the brush presented on replay.

I know, it’s a silly short story today, but honestly, don’t most of us spend way more time in the decision-making process for daily household items than we did previously? Mostly due to buying online vs. in person?

At the store, I may have too many choices but something is in my cart within two minutes. Online, I’ve spent 40 minutes comparing packs of uncoated paper plates like I’m researching a legal case.

Thank you for sharing your time with me. Have a wonderful week!

Featured photo: Home Depot

29 responses to “I’m Just Trying to Buy a Toilet Brush!”

  1. Vero Avatar

    Electric toilet brush???????? Good grief!!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      If you can imagine it, Amazon likely sells it!

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      1. Vero Avatar

        No doubt!!!!!!

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  2. Tom Avatar

    I enjoyed your good thoughts on the over-abundance of consumer options. I sometimes think back to my childhood in the 1960s and early-70s when the choices at the supermarkets and other retail stores were much more limited, which made the dreaded shopping process more simpler and straightforward.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Simple and straightforward are things of the past. Part of a retailer being straightforward includes being honest and direct. Their marketing is virtually never either one.

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  3. shoreacres Avatar

    Well, maybe I’m the outlier, but I don’t ever spend much time scrolling. Last week, I decided to get a new desk chair. Amazon Prime’s my go-to, so I spent maybe ten minutes looking through the offerings before ordering one. It arrived in a box with ten pieces, assorted hardware, and the best instruction sheet I’ve ever seen. There were line drawings and written descriptions,and it took only 15 minutes to put it all together. So, for about 45 minutes of labor, including opening the box and disposing of the trash, I have the most comfortable desk chair I’ve ever had.

    It would have taken half a day to go from store to store looking for a chair, and maybe more. Granted, there was a certain amount of luck involved in this purchase, but the result was satisfying. Despite the 40,000 or so desk chair listings on Amazon, I found my one!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Many of the thousands of choices are identical makes/models, so it’s smart to purchase as you did and hope for the best. I’ve bought so much on Prime this year, but scroll the reviews most for the best quality because I hate doing returns. Congrats on getting the comfie desk chair on the first try!

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  4. Terry Avatar

    Thanks for the early morning smile, Elena. Packaging and advertising price hikes are everywhere – even in our groceries. The no name labels are produced/processed in the same plants. The same holds true for appliances. Often the stove with the big name was produced in the same factory as the cheaper one sitting next to it. I learned all of these things years ago when hubs was driving semi and I’d hop in with him when I had time off work.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Good point about the appliances being part of this topic. The grocery aspect you mention is disturbing, considering our health. I’ve met a couple women in the textile industries of fashion and their stories of touring the overseas factories – seeing the exact same clothing items packaged differently – are riveting.

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  5. Wakinguponthewrongsideof Avatar

    too many choices is as bad as too few

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      That can often be true. It’s about the time for me … fewer choices, quicker decision.

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  6. Looking for the Light Avatar

    I face the same thing! I shop a great deal at Amazon since I don’t drive and sometimes it feels endless and quite frustrating. Like you I have to remember there can be differences but most is marketing and may not even deliver. Marketing is everywhere in our lives and I’ve become more aware of not jumping on a product. One of my tricks in to put a couple of options on my wish list if I don’t need the product right away and see if goes on sale within a couple of weeks. It doesn’t always work but I have saved money. I use the wish list constantly to decide and to reread each item again instead of just buying. Just because we have the money doesn’t mean we need to spend it. πŸ™‚

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Your system works well for you! I use the regular lists, labeling them kitchen, bathroom, etc. Your final line is wise!πŸ’΅πŸ’²

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  7. Jacqui Murray Avatar

    I often spend way too long on Amazon purchases (or other online purchases). Usually, I’m trying to buy American–support our workers, get that unemployment rate down–which proves d*** difficult to find! Amazon won’t even sort by “made in America”.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      I’m so with you on how Amazon doesn’t let you sort where products are manufactured. It’s a deep dive on some of the pages to even find it in the product details. I spend just as much time on that as reviews and cost. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Jacqui.

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  8. Grant at Writing for Eternity Avatar

    I agree, MLM. Now I K.I.S.S. It’s my “Keep it super simple” for in-between cleanings with a few squirts of Tilex made by CLOROX.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      πŸ˜„That is a great way to approach the whole toilet cleaning situation!

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  9. Anne Mehrling Avatar

    I bought a toilet brush at Dollar Tree when I moved 12 years ago. It’s still working for me. The decision probably took two seconds.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      πŸ˜‚That’s perfect, Anne. Why didn’t I think of the Dollar Tree?! lol

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  10. Mama's Empty Nest Avatar

    This is exactly one of the reasons I seldom shop online. I’m so old school I have to physically go to an actual not virtual store to see and handle the product. And all the online marketing drives me crazy.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      You are fortunate to still mostly shop in the bricks and mortars. I’m finding it increasingly difficult to avoid online shopping. Mostly because I don’t want to navigate traffic leaving our new small town and driving toward Austin.

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  11. daylerogers Avatar

    We’re overwhelmed with options. Too many to make genuinely simple decisions. And will any of those toilet bowl brushes clean better than another? It’s a little frightening that I’m choosing to use up my precious days making decisions that don’t amount to much at all.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      I often say out loud I don’t want to know how much earthly time I have spent recently making purchasing decisions. You are very right that our days are precious🀍. Fortunately, our home is almost fully set up and I can move onto other things.

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  12. lghiggins Avatar

    I agree and confess that I spend way too much time when I need to make a purchase on Amazon. Comparison is critical to getting the right product, but I don’t know that I am always successful at that. Reviews, descriptions, pricing. It can just be too much!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      It’s overwhelming – the number of choices, reviews, deciphering if the reviews are legitimate… many things to be considered. We want to be good stewards of our money – I hear you!

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  13. Ronit Penso Tasty Eats Avatar

    Same goes with the comments – some people will write their whole life story, instead of simply explaining if the product met their needs! πŸ™‚

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Absolutely! I marvel at the amount of time people spend writing reviews for a silly Amazon product. Particularly those who aren’t getting paid or receiving a free product in exchange for the review!

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  14. Awakening Wonders Avatar

    My favorite workout is scrolling through pages . . I’m just a girl sitting in front of 500 plus choices!!!!!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      lol πŸ˜‚ Your kind of workout is much more fun than lifting weights!!

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