Travel Tales and Blogging Break

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Less than two weeks ago, we made the trek from New York to Texas and it was a white-knuckle experience for me. I didn’t encounter anything unique from what you likely have: endless construction, maniacs who shouldn’t have car keys, massive semi trucks, torrential rain. I hate all of it and cannot relax for a minute. 

My husband also isn’t a cautious guy. He’s not the above-stated maniac but definitely has a penchant for driving even a Chevy Traverse like it’s a Ferrari488 Pista Spider. He’s owns muscle cars and is a fast car person. Sniffs your bumper if you’re not going fast enough in the left lane. Weaves in and out of traffic thinking he’s making up time. I apologize. 

I’m an extremely cautious SUV driver and relatively reserved in most aspects of life. Unlike me, hubs will fit in on these wild Texas roads just fine. 

Here is the major irony: as we entered the great state, these are the signs greeting you…

See the photo above ‘welcome to Texas’?^^ Add speed to those winding skyways. There is nothing “friendly” about driving on Texas highways – that I’ve yet observed.

If you have a never-been-to-Texas-northern mentality about Texans being slow… the overwhelming majority drive like my husband on steroids. Not going 90mph? GET OUT OF THE WAY!

My sweet, thoughtful, truly kind-hearted son-in-law is a born and bred Texan. He wears cowboy boots and takes his time talking. When we all climb into his Texas-sized-King Ranch-whatever type of giant truck, the young man transforms into a Formula One race car driver.

Adding to the travel ironies is my being an SPF daily girl – long before it was recommended. I take walks in big hats. This is me one hour after crossing the Texas border: 

My husband and daughter were laughing that I was already hiding from the blazing sun through the windshield. Moving this girl to a “relentless sun state” shows God’s sense of humor. (My youngest who has lived here 4 1/2 yrs still deeply grieves northeast weather and coined the relentless phrase.) 

Most of my wardrobe is typical New York. Dark. Or ivory. Not lightweight ivory clothes. Black pants. Heavy cream-colored sweaters. I know, it sounds like I’m already complaining. I’ll change my tune to joy in February while walking outdoors without snow boots on.

So, we arrived in Central Texas Hill Country. Enjoyed Thanksgiving and my fellow road warriors hubs and oldest daughter flew back to NY on Monday. The whole gang will be back in three weeks to stay for the holidays.  

Now, the unboxing begins. And I have a lot to do. In the house. For Christmas. So I must take a blogging break to try and make some of our traditions happen. Not sure how long of a break, but hopefully not more than a couple weeks. 

Thank you kindly for reading and may this wonderful, festive month be everything you hope♥️🎄. 

Featured image: the truck made me smile and I snapped the photo (I think?) in Tennessee.

40 responses to “Travel Tales and Blogging Break”

  1. susandyer1962 Avatar

    Good luck with all the unpacking!

    I drive like your husband and I have a Jeep! Hehe he will never sniff my bumper as he will never be able to catch me!😂😂😂

    Glad you made it safely and enjoy the warmer weather! We moved from Webster NY up by Lake Ontario down to North Carolina six years ago and I still don’t miss snow!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      😂Oh no, you are another speedy driver on the roads!
      Thank you for sharing your relocation story. It’s good to know you adjusted and don’t miss the NY weather. I know exactly where Webster is. I’m assuming because I happen to be moving during the holidays the lack of snow seems odd.
      Thank you for the good wishes, I appreciate them!!💗💗

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  2. susandyer1962 Avatar

    But but but……I have a good excuse for my driving habits! I grew up in NJ and well, I’m sure you’ve heard the stories!😂😂

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Yes! And yikes!!!😄

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  3. Judy Avatar

    You have moved to a state where distance is not measured in miles but how long it takes to reach your destination, where 5 hour drives, one way, are day trips. A dear friend lives in Texas; she educated me the times I visited. 🙂 Change is hard, even good change. Mourn the loss of good things and celebrate the coming of new good things. Yes, it’s possible to do both at the same time. God bless.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      No joke about the distance not measured in miles. My daughter and son-in-law drove nearly an hour to church each way for two years until they moved recently. The amount of driving to get places is very unusual to me but quite normal here.
      Your message carries great meaning and I thank you -sincerely- for the encouragement♥️♥️.

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      1. Judy Avatar

        🙂 ❤

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  4. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

    Nope, just drove straight down! Teeth clenched😬🚙, but I made it😄.
    Thank you, Pat.

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  5. Phil Strawn Avatar

    Welcome to Texas. I know we all drive like maniacs down here, especially in Dallas and Houston. We live in Fort Worth area Granbury, Texas to be exact and we still encounter those crazy people from day-to-day but you’ll get used to it living in the hill country is a little more laid-back than living in the big cities and I think you’re really going to enjoy it. Keep in touch and I’ll write you some more stuff about living in Texas that you learn to appreciate. Visit Fredericksburg and lukenbauch if you get the chance.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you for the welcome! My oldest daughter lived in Dallas for a year and I still thank God for protecting her driving during that time!
      My youngest (and now us) thankfully live away from major roadways and traffic in central TX.
      Fredericksburg is on our list and I’ll ask my daughter about Lukenbauch as well.

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  6. Tom Avatar

    I enjoyed the trek tales! May things go smoothly for you and hubby as you settle in. BTW, it’s currently 19F here in Rochester.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Brrrr🥶. Thank you and stay warm (and safe!) up there!!

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      1. Tom Avatar

        Thanks!!!

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  7. Jacqui Murray Avatar

    I’m looking forward to hearing more about Texas!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      I’m sure more tales will be forthcoming!🩶

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  8. Anne Mehrling Avatar

    Good luck unpacking!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you, Anne. I need the luck!😄

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  9. shoreacres Avatar

    Here’s an interesting tidbit about Texas drivers. Prior to Covid, we were basically pretty reasonable drivers; even the dudes in their huge F-whatevers weren’t going 85 on a daily basis. But after that Covid shutdown, it was as though the animals had been let out of their cage. The change is remarkable, and it’s significant enough that I won’t drive I-10 to get to my friend’s place in Kerrville. I add an hour to the trip and go around San Antonio, through Bandera. It’s better for my blood pressure and my anxiety level!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      That is definitely interesting! I incorrectly assumed drivers were always this wild down here.
      Fortunately, I won’t need to drive into Austin (and on crazy highways) as plenty of shopping and restaurants appear to be in two nearby towns.
      I agree wholeheartedly that the driving can elevate BP and anxiety!!

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  10. Terry Avatar

    Welcome to Texas! My hubs is a retired long haul semi driver. He logged three million accident free miles in Canada and the USA, over the course of his career. Surprisingly, he’s not a speed demon and remains to be an extremely safe driver. We prefer the frontage roads in Texas to the expressway and appreciate that this option is available. I think I told you that we have a good friend who lives in Llano, so we visit her in the heart of hill country every year on our way to the RGV. Llano is a great town to visit too. If you like wildflowers, Burnet is known as the bluebonnet capital of Texas and is another great place to visit to see fields of the state flower. Bluebonnets are most abundant after a wet winter, so I predict there will be a fantastic crop come early April this year. Wishing you a great settling in time and a happy holiday season!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Three million accident free miles is a true blessing and accomplished career. Such a contrast to the scenes we see on the news-we need more drivers like your husband!
      Thank you for the recommendations and though I have seen the bluebonnets during my many trips down here, I usually only catch the tail end – April should be pretty!
      Wishing you a good weekend🤍.

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  11. Wakinguponthewrongsideof Avatar

    Cheers!!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you!

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  12. Lauren Scott, Author Avatar

    I’ve never been to Texas, but the drivers around here seem to be the same. It’s crazy! Love that truck at the end. Thanks for the smile, and have a wonderful holiday with your family. 🥰

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Yikes! Stay safe in your area too. Thank you and I wish you the same – a happy holiday season!🎄

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  13. kathyscottage Avatar

    Oh my word! I love this post. My husband is from Texas!!! Need I say more??? I’ve driven in Texas a few times. Abilene is especially challenging. One doesn’t drive in Texas, one is jettisoned or maybe shot out of a cannon, in Texas! *haha* Have a very Happy December.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      😄”Shot out of a cannon” says it all! Not fun on the roads.
      Thank you for your comments and I wish you a happy holiday season!!♥️

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  14. Jeff & Charmé Avatar

    Always puts a smile on my face catching up with your midlife happenings. Glad you made it safely to your new home in Texas. The smiley truck says it all!! Have a nice Christmas with your family.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you very much for your kind message🤍. That truck was a travel highlight!
      A very Merry Christmas to you and your family as well!♥️🎄♥️

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  15. lghiggins Avatar

    Take your time unpacking so you will be happy with the results. And for heaven’s sake, go around Dallas whenever possible!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Yes, we avoid Dallas! Getting into
      Austin which is closest to us is enough of a teeth clencher. My other daughter lived in Dallas for a year and I still thank God for keeping her safe on those roads!
      Thank you for your words and have a wonderful December🎄♥️.

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  16. Awakening Wonders Avatar

    Welcome to Texas! The large cities all over the USA are pretty crazy when it comes to driving. Unpack, put your boots on and enjoy all Texas has to offer you!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you. That’s true about other large US cities. We’ve experienced road madness in other states, but have spent the most time here and the speed is unprecedented. God bless us-one and all!🎄

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  17. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

    OMG – this whole “maniacs who shouldn’t have car keys” scares me off having a road trip these days – but I do LOVE the smiley truck from maybe-Tennessee!! Wishing you all the best as you unbox your life anew – how very exciting – enjoy the festive season in the sunshine and try not to get sunburnt! Best wishes to you and yours, Linda xox

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Yes, never again will I drive that 1500-mile trip and I have carefully avoided the “skyways” here in TX😣. Thank you for the happy wishes – I appreciate them all!!💕

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      1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

        ugh – I don’t like driving to the shops and back – but you made it and it’s behind you – enjoy the future!!
        🎄💚🎄

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  18. believe4147 Avatar

    May all come together in peace, rest, and joy. It sounds like you may need a good dose of all those after that trip! Merry Christmas to you and yours.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you. Yes, rest still evades me but I’m hopeful for the new year to bring some normalcy. I wish you a very Merry Christmas🎄♥️.

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  19. Valerie Cullers Avatar

    What a crackup! When we used to travel in the snow and ice over the holidays, my husband said I would eat pretzels every time I got nervous….needless to say, I ate a lot of them!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      It’s so nerve wracking! I’m going to think of you and your pretzels next time I’m white-knuckled on the highways!!😂

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