Memorial Day

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Since I’m a lifelong New Yorker living nowhere near a military base, it’s rare that I bump into active duty soldiers in uniform.

Memorial Day poppies have been a symbol of lives lost to war since World War I.

Three years ago, I stopped in a Walmart in Killeen, Texas. Within a minute of my store entry, I struck up a brief conversation with a young man in uniform, thanking him for his military service. Surprisingly, I repeated my sincere sentiments to another soldier two minutes later. Then, I looked around noticing the majority of store patrons were in uniform. It was a sight.

I didn’t know it at the time, but I stopped in a town housing the largest active duty armored post in the U.S. Armed Services. Still largely recognized as Ft. Hood (recently renamed Fort Cavazos), this military base fuels the Killeen, TX economy. Recent statistics vary, but numbers range between 36,000-41,000 soldiers on base. Adding their dependents and base staff, Fort Cavazos (Hood) population totals around 83,000.

In 2017 at Ft. Hood, the statistics looked like this: “The post (is) home to 45,414 active duty enlisted soldiers and 4,929 active duty officers with a total population served of 218,003. Of that number 17,954 soldiers and dependents live on post and 89,933 soldiers and dependents live off post, plus 89,933 retirees, survivors and family members.” Source

There are good stories and sad ones associated with Ft. Cavazos (Hood) and other military bases across the globe. Today, we honor men and women who died in war and military personnel lost during training exercises, accidents and suicide. I wasn’t certain, so I double-checked if Memorial Day formally included honoring all of these fallen souls.

According to several official – and unofficial sources (The Washington Post, civilwar.net and others), Memorial Day remembers all lost fighting and also acknowledges soldiers who died outside of active combat. Every loss is a tragic one with life stories behind each name.

To those who served and are no longer with us.

“True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.” —Arthur Ashe

“Fort Hood occupies about 340 square miles halfway between Waco and Austin, where thousands of U.S. Army soldiers, some airmen and some sailors and Marines, train every day.” Source

“Freedom makes a huge requirement of every human being. With freedom comes responsibility.” —Eleanor Roosevelt

36 responses to “Memorial Day”

  1. yoyoliving Avatar

    My son was stationed at Ft Hood over a dozen years ago.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you for sharing this about your son. I am grateful he gave time serving our nation.

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  2. Looking for the Light Avatar

    When I was traveling around the time of Desert Storm, I would see soldiers with their gear shipping out, it was a dose of reality but I took the time to hug and thank every soldier I saw. I didn’t care what other’s thought, the military is very close to might heart.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      They were likely very touched by your outward expression of gratitude. Imagine how unsettled they were at that moment about to be sent overseas. Your kindness helped when others wouldn’t have stopped to converse.

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      1. Looking for the Light Avatar

        I don’t run across many soldiers today but I would do the same to everyone I saw today.

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        1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

          Your respect and sincere care for our military is refreshing.

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          1. Looking for the Light Avatar

            When my gramps died in 2010 Ft. Hood was stretched for soldiers to come to funerals, I understood why for sure but was a bit disappointed. At the time of the funeral, six arrived and managed his flag. I was so honored, I was in tears. I went to talk with them, to each to thank them for their service and for making time to send my gramps out with the honors he deserved. We all cried.

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            1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

              I’m teary reading this, Melinda. Thank you for sharing about your gramps military funeral. I’m thankful that six could come and honor him. No doubt, he deserved it. Such an emotional memory that you’ll always treasure.

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  3. Terry Avatar

    A wonderful tribute post!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you💙They gave all!

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  4. equipsblog Avatar

    Tanks from this post have already been sent to DC for the largest military parade since the 1991 Gulf War Parade. Obstensibly in honor of the US Army’s 250th birthday, many people are also associating it with someone’s personal birthday. It also happens to be Flag Day. Good post, MLM.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Seeing nearly 7000 soldiers, military vehicles, etc., will be something. Praying for safety across all aspects of this event.

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      1. equipsblog Avatar

        I was living in DC and saw part of 1991 parade. Also saw Bush’s limo driving onto Ft Myer for a prayer meeting before the War began. Powell was Chairman so he lived in quarters on the base and he also attended the service.

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        1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

          So many memories from your time in the Capitol. Seeing history in the making must have been moving.

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          1. equipsblog Avatar

            Many wonderful experiences. I do still miss it occasionally and being on the periphery to some things. One of my part time night/weekend people was a Marine working at USMC headquarters when they decided to retire LtCol Ollie North for the good of the Marine Corps. The officer responsible for telling North about the decision was told tell North a second time that it was an order and not a recommendation. Small details we would never be aware of…

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            1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

              Right? You had a birds-eye view…

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              1. equipsblog Avatar

                Only on a few select occasions.

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  5. Jacqui Murray Avatar

    My son’s overseas right now. Kudos to our Americans in uniform.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      I have enjoyed and appreciated posts about your son and your daughter’s process getting into the USNA. God bless your family-truly special to have two children in service. I am grateful for them.

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  6. JanBeek Avatar

    Yes, thank you for sharing this!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you for reading, Jan!

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  7. GP Avatar

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Excellent…thank you, GP.

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  8. Phil Strawn Avatar

    A heartfelt post, thank you. We folks here in Texas are proud of Fort Hood, as it will always be known and called.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Our Texas in-laws share your sentiments, feeling the exact same about Ft. Hood. Thank you, Phil.

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  9. cindy knoke Avatar

    In memoriam.

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      🙏🏻Yes.

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  10. Cindy Georgakas Avatar

    A wonderful post and tribute MLM! 💕

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Thank you, Cindy-We honor their sacrifice💙!

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  11. Lauren Scott, Author Avatar

    Thanks for this wonderful tribute to our Veterans! 💗

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      For those who gave all…💙 Thank you for reading!

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  12. murisopsis Avatar

    I usually see a couple uniformed service persons on Memorial Day but we were traveling and didn’t see any!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      Some areas have very few active military personnel while closer to bases, soldiers are next to you in the supermarket! Hope you enjoyed your travels!

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      1. murisopsis Avatar

        Yes we had a great time!! Even with the rain it was a good time!

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  13. katiesencouragementforyou Avatar

    I love these quote: “True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.” —Arthur Ashe This to me, exemplifies what Christ said, when He said that whoever wishes to be great among you, must be the servant of all. To all who serve — thank you so much!!

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    1. Mid-Life Mama Avatar

      I agree with you! I love your comparison. Serving others…♥️

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